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7 Ways How To Be Yourself

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7 Ways How To Be Yourself

What do you feel when pretending to be someone else? You may feel weird, not relaxed, unhappy, or not enjoying life. It's not impossible nor you don't have many friends.

Of course, the feeling and condition are the opposite if you become yourself as it is. Unfortunately, you feel yourself it is not easy. What's more, you don't know where to start.

Don't worry. You can be yourself so that you are happier and more enjoyable life. To help you make it happen, here are 7 ways to be yourself that you can try.

1. Thank Yourself What It Is

If you've been pretending to be someone else because consider yourself a lot of flaws, stop it right now. Breathe your breath deep, and accept all those flaws as part of yourself.

Don't complain. Don't get upset. Don't be shy. Remember, the Lord created you with all his will.

For example, your skin is not as white as your friend. Accept it, because behind your skin color there is God's power.
By accepting all the shortcomings you have, you are honest and believe yourself to be happy. If not you, who will accept yourself as good as you?

2. Know Yourself

Accepting all the shortcomings you have may make you able to recognize yourself. Otherwise, it does not matter. 
Some of the questions below can help you identify yourself:
  • What are your strengths and weaknesses?
  • What do you like and dislike?
  • How do you interact with others?
  • Are you happy because of the money?
  • What kind of life do you want?
3. Make Your Strengths As A Self-Identity

From answering a few of the above questions, you will likely know your strengths. Well, make that power as your identity.

For example, if your strength is to write, make write as your identity. Tell anyone that you enjoy writing and want to be a reputable writer or find money from your writings.

4. Don't Worry About What People Say Or Think

Pretending to be someone else is usually due to the worry of what people say or think about you. To get rid of this cause, start now don't worry or focus on what people will say or think about you.

Why? Because you can not control the thoughts and words of others. You are also unlikely to please everyone.

Come forth as you wish. Do what you love. Show yourself.

5. Focus On Your Goals

Another way to be yourself is to focus on your goals. For example, if your goal is to become a best-seller, focus on making books that are useful to others.

In practice, you will face obstacles or obstacles. It's normal, and keep focusing until your goals are achieved.

6. Love What You Do

When you focus on pursuing your goals, you can be a doubt that you want to be like someone else. Eliminate those doubts by loving what you do.

Remember, many people do not love their work. According to a survey conducted by Gallup in 2013 then, 70% of employees in the United States hated their work.

7. Don't Compare Yourself To Others

As time goes by, you'll achieve success, whether it's a small success or a big success. Be grateful for the success, and don't compare to the success of others.

For example, in your writing career, you're only able to write 3 pages of books every day. Be thankful for that and do not compare you to other authors who in each day can write 30 pages.

Why? Because if you force yourself to write 30 pages every day, you may not be ready yet. It could also be that you don't have to write 30 pages every day because your situation and condition are different from him.

Being yourself is not difficult. Try practicing the seven simple steps above right now. Indeed at first, you will be doubtful or difficult. However, rest assured, sooner or later you will be yourself as it is so happier and more enjoyable life.

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